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As a 21st century woman, wife, mother and entrepreneur, life has been exciting! The issue has always been balancing the act! How do I stay a loving wife, a doting mother, an actress, scriptwriter, producer, director and business woman? How do I juggle all without dropping the ball? Million dollar question!

 

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Many times, I wish I had some superhuman powers or I could just flick my fingers and my youngest son’s project will get done! Don’t even get me started on that! I think the schools of today are on a ‘punish the parents’ mission. Why do they always have tons of homework that the kids can’t do on their own or projects that a whole community has to be involved in?!!! Anyway, I digress…No day goes by without one of the balls sometimes dropping, almost dropping or being saved at the last minute. I bet you thought I was superwoman. Alas I am not! Many nights, I am so exhausted, I barely have strength to wipe off my makeup and flop on my bed. The weird part though is that I don’t fall asleep right away, I still have to evaluate my day while plotting the next day. As tough as being a woman, wife and mother is, I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love every part of my life and I would not be complete without it all. When the going gets tough at work, I just think about my kids and how they are growing everyday, count my blessings and the world is beautiful again.

Don’t you love how the 21st century woman is concerned about her body? I love it! We love to take care of our skin, our hair and above all, our health! We are now concerned with what goes inside us; checking labels to see if harmful chemicals are hiding in our skin care range or our food. I personally like to eat as close to nature as possible. It’s important to make healthy choices, not just for us, but for our families. Let’s get to the real reason why we are here, shall we? Why am I blogging? Good question! I am here to interact more with you, so I will be sharing about myself, family, lifestyle, travels, fashion, food and more. I want to pass on my experiences, both good and bad, but most of all, I want to know your experiences so I can learn from you. I promise to keep it fun,  fresh, vibrant and interactive. I will do my best to answer questions you may have, so keep them coming! Let’s just interact shall we? While we are at it, let’s keep it real! No pretences, no hating, no name calling or insults. Let’s share love and help ourselves become better people. Together, we can help each other grow! I only have love to give. Let me hear your thoughts!

Oh…blog post on the detox program I just did, coming later today…watch this space!

 


Discussion (103 Comments)

  1. by AyBee
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    Hello Omoni, congrats on your blog. I look forward to reading more posts. Hope we will also get some posts on natural hair oh…lol…God bless you

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks dear, I certainly will post a lot of hair stuff. Cheers

  2. by Ijeoma
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    Hello ma’am, jes curious how have u been able to stay in your marriage this long considering d ever rising broken marriages among celebrities. Would love to larn from your reply.Thanks.

    • That’s also something I really really want to know about. That natural hair of yours. Its well.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Ijeoma, trust you are well. My dear, my husband is my friend plus we both made up our minds that no matter what, we will stay married. So even when we quarrel, we know we have to settle on time. We try to keep the communication lines open so we can always thrash issues before they become major problems. Above all, we have Jesus as our confidant and helper. We don’t share our issues with outsiders. I hope this helps! Hugs

  3. by chika
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    Amazing!! You are a wonder woman keep shining

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Chika! Bless you

  4. by Blessing M Johnson
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    Am a big fan of you ma,I always make it my first pro purity to look at your Instagram page everyday and leave a comment if need be,okay all I want from you is to please explain in a lame’s man English on how to make those smotties you take,am only a student not working but don’t like my tummy(it’s big)want it to be like urs,so pls just the facts and affordable ones.since am not working but I know I can still get in shape with little cash at hand…P.s you av a lovely family,God bless you

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Blessing, don’t worry I will post things about weight loss and staying in shape soon. In the meantime, try to cut out late dinners and too much carbohydrates. Keep reading!

  5. Awesome! It’s great that you’re doing this, many women out there need to know that they’re not alone. The good thing is, we will be alright and so will our families, amen!

    • by Omonioboli
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      Awww Joy, we will be alright won’t we? Your message touched my heart! Stay connected. We can motivate ourselves. Love to your family

  6. by lisa
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    just heard about ur detox program recently, Am a girl of 21 and Am scared that I’ll be overweight before I turn 30 and even when I start giving birth. my weight scares me, how will I maintain my weight as a lady because I want to feel good on the inside as well as my outside. Need help on d detox program Thanks.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Lisa, I have posted the detox program and I will keep posting tips on healthy lifestyle from time to time so just stay connected. Take care

  7. by fej
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    Really nice. Really interested in the detox programme. Well done!

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Fej, I have posted the detox program! I hope it helps you. Cheers

  8. by funmi
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    Hello. So glad you are doing this. I love it when women keep it real. First, let me bless your family. You are a wonderful woman and I love everything about you. Back to me! I need your advice. I will be getting married in few months and to be honest, I have a lot on my mind. Things like balancing my job plus my new status and when God bless me with kids. Sometimes I ask myself if am going to be a good wife and a good mother. Am based outside Nigeria, and am sure you know how it is if one is out of job. So, keeping my job is a must, getting married is also a must, and of course I want kids. How do I put this together without dropping a ball.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hi Funmi, congrats on your upcoming marriage. Don’t overstress hun. Just pray for wisdom to know what to do at all times. I think God gives us grace for each level so you’ll find that once you have kids, the grace to be a good mom will come. A good support system is very important and putting your kids in a routine is crucial. Sometimes it will feel like it’s all a little too much but don’t worry, you are not alone. We all feel that way. Just be rest assured that we will all be fine. Much love

  9. by mrs lilian
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    Good morning maam.lovely family u got and I must compliment your been able to balance work,family and business. Please I really want to know abt ur beautiful hair. How long u kept it and how u maintain it . products

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hello Mrs Lilian, thanks for the compliments. I will do some video tutorials and posts on my hair soon so stay tuned! Lol. I have had my hair natural for about a year now. I transitioned for a few months before the big chop. More information soon. Cheers

  10. by Stephanie Nkechi Chigbu
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    When i say your an inspiration to many women out there, not just me, am not missing words. I ve learnt alot from you as a mum,meeting you personally confirmed it all,that your as real as i even imagined,at first i thought it was all camera till i met you,till date my first daughter always ask me of that beautiful Auntie

    • by Omonioboli
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      Awww Steph, thanks so much! Kiss your daughter! Hugs

  11. by yinka odubamowo
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    Waiting patiently for your detox theraph. Had to stay up late last night to finish the blending. Have taken a bottle of mixed cucumber, watermelon, berry, pear, pineapple, carrot….my stomach still burning….chei madam this is real work….it does not even taste nice….i need encouragement. #mysupergal#cheers….

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hahahahaha! Yinka! How can it have pineapple and not taste nice! Lol. Anyway, I have posted the detox blog. Hope it helps

  12. by NJYBABY
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    Always your gr8 fan. Please keep it up

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks dear

  13. by Mine Joseph
    Reply

    I Love You Omoni!
    Please Help A Young Girl Actualize Her Dreams.
    i wish i could get your help.

  14. by Jacob
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    you think we dont know that you wont print the real comments from people that are not shameless kissing your ass.

  15. by J.
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    Lots of love Super Woman: congrats on your new blog! Luuuv your first posts already!!! Double portion of God’s Grace & Favor!!!
    1stAJ

    • by Omonioboli
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      Awww thanks sis! Hugssss

  16. by ndidiamaka
    Reply

    Beautiful

  17. by Ugochukwu
    Reply

    Congrats super woman on the successful launch of your blog..

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Ugo

  18. by Ify James
    Reply

    Waoooo, congrats babes. Welldone

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Ify

  19. It really nice thumb up,ma am a very gud actress dnt knw if u can help me to actualize my dream of being an actress,08109241363 tankz nd God bless

  20. by Felice D.
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    Nice update Mrs Oboli.
    More grease 2 ur elbows,looking forward 2 reading more on your blogs.God bless…

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Felice

  21. by mrs ify onwochei
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    Dear I love your first post, it was great! I want more info on your therapy.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Ify! I have posted the detox program

  22. Congratulations on your blog Omoni.
    Hoping to interact and learn. As a young lady who is about to start a new life, I want to learn from successful people also bearing it in mind that no one is perfect, not even u and I. Let the journey begin! We’ll have fun.

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    Perception allows reception. If your mind can grasp it, your life can experience it. The issue isn’t wat you fear, but your perception of it.
    @Mosi_Tash_Jazzy

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hugs!

  23. by Ufuoma Onyenokwe
    Reply

    Finally a forum with better interaction! Great job,Ma’am. More grace I pray for you.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Ufo!

  24. by Dr Durowade misbau
    Reply

    Omoni oboli, being following ur detox menu and it’s really great on you. Meanwhile when are you directing another movie, being Mrs elliot was the best nollywood have seen. Much love. Regards to ur beautiful family. Diehard fan of omoni

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Misbau! My next movie has been shot and I am editing now. It should hit the screens by summer latest! You’ll be the 1st to know right here on our blog! Cheers

  25. by Dr Durowade misbau
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    Being Mrs elliot was the best nollywood movie. Do more directing Pls. Much love. Ur diehard fan. Regards to ur beautiful family

  26. by Dr Durowade misbau
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    Good work Omoni. Much love

  27. by Jahcynta
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    Ma’am you give me so much inspiration. You showed that a woman can look so beautiful even with her natural hair. To me, you are a mentor i haven’t met yet. Sometimes, when i get confused about something, i would just think to myself “what would a woman like Omoni do?”. It’s so wonderful that you have decided to be a blogger. At least, we can get more mentorship too. Big congrats.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Jacynta! Hugs

  28. by Dorcas Osazee Ogiamien
    Reply

    Congrats dearie on your blog.its gonna be a great avenue to get to know this great icon.I have never met you but I do Love your person and the bond in your family(hoping its not just in pictures alone). Thus far I haven’t heard no scandal about you and that am glad but please keep it that way for your hubby and boys sake especially. Keep been strong and achieving

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Dorcas! Bless

  29. by Esther Ndidi
    Reply

    congrats on your blog ma’am.i’m a.big fan of yours from the.movie FIGURINE.God bless you.keep being an inspiration to me and others..cheers!

  30. by Lorraine Quakers
    Reply

    Job well done. Oo you’re a Superwoman 🙂

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Lol Lorraine! You too hun ‘mama boys’ like me! Hug the boys

  31. by Folashade
    Reply

    Hello Omoni I admire you a lot I’m also an aspiring writer and would love to go into film production and script writing .I would be grateful if you could push me in the right direction.Im also a mother with three boys like yourself and totally bond with you on that note .Please respond all love and thanks.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hi Shade, what do you want to know? Love to the boys!

  32. by ken
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    You are one woman I respect alot….I admire your good work and I hope to meet you in person someday…keep it up!!!

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hugs Ken! One love!

  33. by olayinka
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    Hi,though I’ve not seen you in person but I like you alot.LOve seeing your movies n really pray to meet with you one day.
    I go through ur instagram everyday so I decided to come drop a msg for you.The lord will keep strengthen you, keep the good job up.

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Thanks Yinka! Bless you

  34. by Aluko tolulope
    Reply

    Congrats dear…you are a superwoman

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Thanks Tolu!

  35. by oluwafisayo
    Reply

    I love your natural, am thinking of transitioning without the big chop please what products do you use for your hair that makes it curly and shiny

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hi Fisayo, there’s an array of natural hair care products out there, find one that works for you. Always moisturize with water and oils like coconut, Shea butter, almond, olive oil etc. I will do a blog post about it soon. Stay tuned!

      • by Ufuoma Onyenokwe
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        Looking forward to it.

  36. by Chinma
    Reply

    You are a source of inspiration to many. Lovely 1st post.

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Thanks Chinma

  37. by Busi
    Reply

    This is beautiful and such an interesting read especially for the modern mother. It has also encouraged me as I ve been procrastinating on starting my blog. Thank you and wish you all the best.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Good luck girl!

  38. Wow! Just happened to learn about your blog via Twitter.. To say I am impressed is an understatement.. I am inspired.. Thanks for stepping out to be an inspiration to those around you, especially us 21st Century woman.. I know it ain’t easy, but you’ve got the right Platform to keep all the balls balanced-Jesus.. Keep it up sister! Live your dream! I really need the tips on detoxing and staying fit., If you can get it right, then I can too. Thanks Sis, big hugs..

    • by Omonioboli
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      You certainly can hun! Bearing in mind I am not perfect! No one is but God helps us. I have posted the 3 day detox plan. Check it out and let me know how it goes

  39. I am a woman who visions my life just as told by you. I have definitely not achieved half of what you have. Just from university and fresh in the universe. I thank God cause so far I have got a lot going for me.
    It starts from an elder sister who is my inspiration and mentor. Based on the website I wrote its the 1st online magazine showcasing fem-leader. Not owned by me but my my elder sister May-Marie who is the editor in chief. From her initiative I brought to light “illuminating ladies”…we serve as ambassadors to the illuminessence magazine and also help the girl child in our community to grow. March 8 as illuminating ladies we would be going public….trying to let the world know us but as I said we are only babies.
    Apart from illuminating ladies which was initiated to help my sister’s vision become a reality…I am also a growing writer, an on the process actress and an environmentalist as an academic path.
    I am inspired by you…watch almost all ur movies. If u want to know more about illuminating ladies click on the website given and search illuminating ladies.
    Let me know what you think…I look forward to a conversation with you on how I can be that woman who can look back on her path and feel satisfied as u are right now.

  40. by Chika kelly
    Reply

    Finally Omoni has a blog for her fans .. Nice one.. I’m a huge fan. Cheers

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Well done and good luck!

  41. by chinelo
    Reply

    Nice one cominhg from my role model.u are blessed indeed.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Thanks Chinelo! Bless you too

  42. by Chika kelly
    Reply

    Hi Omoni , I have Just had a baby girl . She’s barely 5months old and my first child .. Any advice as to what to do especially some nights can be really stressful . Again do you visit Ireland cos it’ll be nice to finally meet my hero someday ..

  43. Skillful writer, I wonder what you set your mind to do, that you won’t excel. More grace. Cheers!
    Please check http://www.thepinkjournalng.blogspot.com

  44. by Alvan
    Reply

    Hi Omoni, I’m so happy about your new blog. I see it as a platform where lives will be touched and reshaped towards greatness. Thankchu

  45. by Tola Sanni
    Reply

    Good to have you much closer to us your fans and loyalists. If am not mistaken, you are the biggest Star and a role model. How I wish others can learn from you and come down from their high horse. You are such a rare gem, please keep the flag flying…………
    Much Love

  46. by Adanna
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    omoni’s blog? who would hv thot an actress wud have d tym for smthn like dis? I am genuinely surprised. big ups ma’am. u rock

  47. by Oyindamola
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    Wonderful woman and my most respected role model, I love everything about you.

  48. by stellamaris
    Reply

    I just love this woman. Big ups omoni, this is good!

  49. by Dr Durowade misbau
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    Hi omoni, ur fashion taste to AMVCA, was simply amazing. Thumbs up. Waiting for ur movie oh. Kind da addicted to ur movies.

  50. by Onyi
    Reply

    Hi Omoni.. Happy Mother’s Day to you. Pls whisper my name to God in your prayers. Fighting the most difficult battle of my life..

  51. by Dorothy Mensah
    Reply

    God bless you always. I love the way you handle your family and work

  52. by Dorothy Mensah
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    God bless you always. Love the way you handle your family and work believing me really learning from you.

  53. by Teniola Anjorin
    Reply

    Pls ma, I want to know how u did ur natural hair, I love it and I want somtin like that, I will appreciate it if u explain to me

  54. by Teniola Anjorin
    Reply

    Pls I will like you to share with me, how you made your hair curl, #naturalhair I will appreciate it if you explain to me

  55. by kate onyemenam
    Reply

    God bless your family

  56. by Akinola Abisola
    Reply

    first time on ur blog and can’t stop loving you ..am thinking of going on naturals.pls can u give me tips for hair growth and to soften it

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Hey dear, there’s a lot of information online for natural hair. All hair types are different and there’s no one size fits all. Most important thing is to study your hair, you’ll get to know what your hair likes and what it doesn’t. Make sure you condition regularly and hydrate. Natural hair loves water. I always have a spray bottle of water that I spray on my hair, day and night. Good luck!

  57. by Wisdom Usoro
    Reply

    Hey ma ….. I’ve been your supper fan , I’m so proud of you ,you are one of the few Nigerian celebrity women with a secured and a fruitful marriage , may God continue to bless and keep you …. I hope to see you some day in person as I journey to meet you at the top, I love acting!

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Thanks!

  58. by chioma
    Reply

    You re indeed a definition of an Africa woman, you stay married pls dont be like other author dat is in nd out marrige.love evrything about u,a mother wife nd a role model to many.pls do u have an idea wat one can use for a bar hair. Watin for ur reply. Keep d good work going Omo dear.

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Chioma, do you mean bad hair?

  59. by chioma
    Reply

    Ma’ma hey,pls is there any drugs or something a lady above 30 can take wen d person is nt yet married to maintain d inside body for d future purposes. Tnks ma.awatin ur reply cos am curious.

    • by Omonioboli
      Reply

      Hey Hun, for drugs, please ask a doctor. Hugsss

  60. by zee
    Reply

    Hi Omoni its my first time visiting your blog and am super in love with it. Please i need your advice on something. Am going to be 18 August and have still not discovered my talent, please advice me on how to. Have been praying to God

    • by Omonioboli
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      Hey Zainab, glad you like my blog. First thing you ask yourself in discovering your talent is what do you enjoy doing? What can you do for free? Let me know! Cheers

  61. by chioma
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    I mean bar hair ma.God bless u.

  62. by chioma
    Reply

    Tnk u so much my role model.i really appreciate u.may God strengthens u.

  63. by BB
    Reply

    Informative blog…me likey!

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